He mea paʻakikī ke kūʻai ʻana i kāu pēpē moe wahine mua, akā ʻo ka hoʻohana ʻana i kahi pāʻani moe pono e wehe i kou mau maka i nā mea hou a hoihoi.
Kōkua lākou iā ʻoe e aʻo hou e pili ana iā ʻoe iho. Eia nō naʻe, uhi pinepine ka insecurity i ko mākou makemake e hoʻāʻo i nā mea pāʻani moe kolohe: ʻaʻole ia he pilina pili ʻole, ʻaʻole ʻike kou makuahine i ke ʻano o kēlā ʻeke naʻauao, a inā ʻaʻole ʻoe makemake iā ia, he aha kāu e hana ai e nalowale. he mea ʻē aʻe ma mua o kahi kālā liʻiliʻi? Inā ʻoe e noʻonoʻo nei inā ua poina ʻoe i kou manawa a ua ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka ʻimi ʻana iā ʻoe, a laila ʻo ia paha ka manawa e ʻimi ai i kahi hoʻomaikaʻi ʻana i ka pākaukau. Ma mua o ka hoʻohana ʻana i kāu kāleka hōʻaiʻē, pono ʻoe e noʻonoʻo i kēia:
No ke aha ia?
ʻAʻole hiki ke hoʻokahi sexpuppe e ʻimi i kahi kūpono i kēlā me kēia kanaka. E noʻonoʻo e pili ana i nā ʻano o ka moekolohe āu e hauʻoli ai a pono ʻoe i ke kōkua. Inā paʻakikī ʻoe e hiki i ka orgasm ma o ke komo wale ʻana, ʻo ia paha ka manawa e kūʻai ai i ka pepeke maoli. Inā ʻike ʻoe ua kokoke kāu hoa pili i ka hemolele akā ʻaʻole i hui pū me ʻoe, hiki iā ʻoe ke kūʻai aku i ka pēpē silicone sex. Inā ʻaʻole ʻoe maopopo i kāu makemake a makemake paha, hiki iā ia ke kōkua i ka hoʻomaka ʻana me ka hoʻoulu lima kahiko a hiki i ka loaʻa ʻana o ka manaʻo maikaʻi aʻe.
No wai ia?
ʻAʻole no nā kāne wale nō nā pēpē maoli a ʻaʻole lawelawe hou e hoʻōla i ka "hysteria" kāne e like me ka hihia i ka makahiki 1800. Hiki iā lākou ke hauʻoli e nā wahine a me nā kāne like. Hiki iā lākou ke hoʻohana i ka pāʻani hoʻokahi a me ka moekolohe maʻamau ma waena o nā kāne (ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke kau i kou mau lima ma nā wahi āpau i ka manawa hoʻokahi, ma hope o nā mea a pau).
He aha ka nui a me ka mea āu e makemake ai?
ʻOiai he manaʻo maʻamau paha, pono e hoʻomaka ka poʻe hou i ka honua o nā mea pāʻani moe liʻiliʻi, a i ʻole ka liʻiliʻi loa. E hōʻalo i nā mea i hōʻoluʻolu ʻole iā ʻoe i ka wā ma mua, a e noʻonoʻo inā makemake ʻoe i ka mea pāʻani moe e manaʻo maoli i kou ʻili, a i ʻole makemake ʻoe e nānā nani ma mua o ka mea maoli. Hoʻohana pinepine ʻia nā mea pāʻani maʻemaʻe, ribbed, bulbous mai ke silicone, jelly, aniani, a me ka metala a me ka lāʻau.
He aha kāu kālā?
make Paʻi moe kolohe hiki pinepine ke lilo i 'failsafe' a i ʻole nā mea pāʻani punahele a he mea leʻaleʻa e like me ka pāʻani nani. Inā ʻaʻole ʻoe maopopo i kāu mea makemake, ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi e hoʻomaka me nā mea pāʻani wahine maʻalahi akā kaulana. A laila, ke ʻike ʻoe i kāu mea e makemake ai, hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻomaka e kūʻai i nā mea pāʻani wahine ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka lōʻihi a ʻaʻole i hoʻolei ʻia.
Ua noʻonoʻo paha ʻoe i ka lubrication?
ʻOiaʻiʻo, hiki iā ʻoe ke pulu maoli, akā ʻaʻohe hilahila i ka makemake ʻana i ke kōkua e pulu i ka wā e pili ana i nā mea pāʻani moe kolohe. I mea e pale aku ai i nā manaʻo ʻinoʻino, ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka mākaukau. He lubricant pili wai e like me Loaʻa ka lubricant, e like me AstroGlide Natural Lubricant, no nā mea pāʻani a pau a he mea ia e kōkua i ka hoʻomaha ʻana i ka hopohopo o ka hoʻohana ʻana i kahi mea pāʻani wahine no ka manawa mua. Manaʻo mākou ua hoʻoikaika ka alakaʻi ma luna iā ʻoe e hoʻāʻo i nā mea pāʻani sex nou iho. E hoʻomanaʻo e hiki iā lākou ke hoʻoulu a komo i nā ʻāpana like ʻole o kou kino a ʻaʻohe nui hoʻokahi i kūpono i nā mea āpau. E ʻike i kahi e hoʻomaka ai a hoʻokolohua i kou hele ʻana - pau ʻole nā mea hiki.
