Ke ulu ʻoe e hiki iā ʻoe ke mahalo i ka makemake kino a me ka pilina pili o ka wahine a loaʻa nā mākau kūpono e hoʻomaʻamaʻa me ka sexdoll.

Nui nā manaʻo noʻonoʻo e pili ana i ka wā e maʻa mau ai nā kāne a me nā wahine, akā hoʻokahi mea maopopo: ʻAʻole no ke kāne a me ka wahine wale nō ka wahine maikaʻi, hiki ke hui pū me kekahi. Kaʻaina hana pu.

Wahi a ka noiʻi a Dr. Kinsey o ke Kinsey Institute i ka makahiki 1950, ua manaʻo ʻia ʻo ka wahine ke kiʻekiʻe i ko lākou mau makahiki 30, ʻoiai ua manaʻo ʻia nā kāne e piʻi i ko lākou mau makahiki 18 a me 19.

Ua ʻae ʻia i kēia manawa ʻaʻole loaʻa ka orgasm a hiki i nā kāne a me nā wahine ke hoʻokō i ka orgasm i kēlā me kēia manawa o ko lākou ola, ʻoiai ʻaʻole ʻike pinepine nā wahine i ka hānau hou ʻana a hiki i ka wā ʻelemakule.

Eia kekahi mau kumu he helu wale ka makahiki.

Ke ulu ʻoe, lilo ʻoe i mea hilinaʻi
Ua noiʻi ʻo Stir i 2000 poʻe a ʻike ʻo ka hilinaʻi ke kī i ka leʻaleʻa moe kolohe. E pili ana i ka lilo ʻana o ka hilinaʻi nui i kou wā ʻelemakule a hōʻike i ka haʻaheo i kou helehelena a me kou ʻano.

'Ōleloʻo Tara Salio, he kākā'ōlelo kāne, "I ka wā o ka poʻe e ulu ana, ua maʻalahi lākou e hoʻomaopopo i ko lākou mau pilikia e pili ana i ko lākou kiʻi kino."

ʻO ka hilinaʻi hoʻi ka mea maʻalahi i ka poʻe e kamaʻilio i ko lākou mau makemake a me nā pono moe kolohe i kā lākou mau hoa. Ke ulu nei ʻoe, ʻike ʻoe ʻaʻole ʻo kāu hoa he mea heluhelu noʻonoʻo, a ʻo ke ala maikaʻi loa e ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka nīnau ʻana.

Ua ʻike ʻia kahi haʻawina a Health Plus magazine e ʻoi aku ka ʻoi aku o ka poʻe ʻelemakule. Ua ʻae ʻo 89% o nā wahine e hauʻoli lākou i nā kūlana a me nā wahi like ʻole.

Ua ʻoi aku kēia mau koho balota ma mua o 45 mau makahiki a ʻae ka hapa nui i ka loaʻa ʻana o ke ola wahine maikaʻi aʻe i ko lākou mau makahiki he 40 ma mua o ko lākou mau makahiki he 20.

Hoʻokumu ka hoʻomaʻamaʻa i nā haku
Mai ka ʻimi ʻana i loko o ka hale kaʻa kaʻa a hiki i ka nui o nā hopena pule haumia, ulu ka ʻike me kēlā me kēia hui wahine. Malia paha e ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ke kāne me ka makahiki no ka mea ua nui ka manawa e hoʻomaʻamaʻa ai.

E ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka moekolohe ke ʻike ʻoe i kāu makemake a i kou hauʻoli ʻana iā ʻoe iho no ka mea ua ʻike ʻoe i kou kino.

ʻOi aku ka maikaʻi o ka loaʻa ʻana o ka orgasm i nā wahine ʻelemakule
ʻO ka wahine orgasm kekahi kumuhana kaulana a maopopo ʻole i ka moekolohe. ʻAʻole hiki i ka nui o nā wahine ke loaʻa i ka orgasm i ka wā o ka moe kolohe, a i ʻole ka loaʻa ʻana o ka orgasm. ʻOi aku ka ʻelemakule, ʻoi aku ka maʻalahi o ka hiki ʻana i ka orgasm.

Ua ʻike ʻia kahi noiʻi 2011 e OkCupid he 20% ʻoi aku ka pilikia o nā wahine i ko lākou mau makahiki he 40, ʻoiai ua hāʻule kēlā helu i 40% no nā wahine i kā lākou mau makahiki he 20.

Wahi a kahi noiʻi a ke Kulanui ʻo Indiana, 61% o nā wahine he 18 a hiki i ka 24 i loaʻa i kahi orgasm i kā lākou moe hope, 65% i ko lākou mau makahiki 30, a me 70% i kā lākou 40s a me 50s.

ʻO kēia mau mea a pau e hōʻike ana i ka poʻe ʻelemakule e moe kolohe ana ke hana pono nei a ke pōmaikaʻi nei lākou mai ka neurochemical oxytocin, ka mea e hoʻokuʻu ai i nā hormones leʻaleʻa a hiki ke hōʻemi i ka ʻeha.

ʻO ka moekolohe ma ka male, ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka moekolohe
ʻOiaʻiʻo, pili kēia i nā kāne male ʻole lōʻihi, akā inā he wahine kāu. Mare a aloha doll kaulana loa i kēia mau lā, a inā ua lōʻihi ʻoe me kekahi, ʻike ʻoe i ka mea e ʻoluʻolu ai ʻolua. Hiki ke manaʻo ikaika o ka pilina a me ka hilinaʻi e alakaʻi i ka moekolohe.

Ua ʻike ʻia kahi noiʻi o 828 Britons i alakaʻi ʻia e Illicit Encounters he 37% o nā wahine a me 34% o nā kāne e manaʻo nei ʻo ka makahiki maikaʻi loa e moe kolohe ai ʻo ia ko lākou mau makahiki he 40.

He ʻokoʻa ka moekolohe ma mua o ke kiʻiʻoniʻoni, a ʻokoʻa ka ʻike o kēlā me kēia kanaka, akā he mea hōʻoluʻolu ke ʻike ʻaʻole pau ka leʻaleʻa ma hope o kou mau makahiki 20 - a inā ʻaʻole ʻoe ʻoluʻolu i kāu mau makahiki he 20, he nui kou manawa.