Chidole chachikondi ndi mtundu wa chidole chogonana chomwe chingagwiritsidwe ntchito posangalatsa kugonana. Zidole zachikondi, zomwe zimatchedwanso "realdolls", zimapangidwa ndi khungu lenileni ndi thupi kuti ziwoneke ngati anthu enieni. Zidole zina zachikondi zimakhala ndi maliseche ogwira ntchito mokwanira ndipo amabuula akagwidwa, pomwe ena alibe kapena maliseche osagwira ntchito. Mu positi iyi tikambirana chifukwa chake anthu amawagwiritsa ntchito (ndi kuti sinthawi zonse zomwe mukuganiza kuti ndi), ubale pakati pa kugonana ndi zidole zachikondi , za momwe zimakhalira kukhala ndi chimodzi mwazoseweretsa zokhala ndi moyo zokulirapo ... ndi zina zambiri!
Anthu akamva mawu oti “chidole” nthawi zambiri amaganiza za ubwana wawo. Koma kwa iwo omwe ali ndi zidole zachikondi, zochitikazo zimakhala zazikulu kwambiri.
Anthu akamva mawu oti “chidole” nthawi zambiri amaganiza za ubwana wawo. Koma kwa iwo omwe ali ndi zidole zachikondi, zochitikazo zimakhala zazikulu kwambiri.
Zidole zachikondi si zoseweretsa; sakupangira ana ndipo sayenera kuchitidwa motero. Zidole zachikondi ndi za anthu akuluakulu omwe akufuna kugonana ndi bwenzi (kapena zibwenzi zambiri) popanda kumangidwa ndi zingwe kapena kudandaula za matenda opatsirana pogonana kapena mimba. Amakhalanso oyenera kwa anthu omwe adataya okondedwa awo kapena alibe mnzawo konse, komabe amalakalaka chikondi chakuthupi nthawi ndi nthawi - ndipo inde, nthawi zina kuposa chikondi chakuthupi!
Pali zifukwa zambiri zomwe wina angafune chidole chachikondi.
Pali zifukwa zambiri zomwe wina angafune chidole chachikondi.
Anthu ena atha kufunafuna zibwenzi zogonana pomwe ena amafunikira kulumikizidwa mwamalingaliro. Ena amafuna kumva kuti amakondedwa ndi kusamaliridwa ndi munthu amene angamvetsere mavuto awo popanda chiweruzo, ndipo ena amangofuna kutulutsa zilakolako zawo zakugonana.
Zidole zachikondi zimatha kukhala njira yopezera zilakolako za kugonana kapena kukhala ngati bwenzi lolowa m'malo. Eni ake ena amatsutsa kuti angakhalenso njira yomvera chikondi pamene maubwenzi palibe kapena kulibe m'moyo weniweni.
Zidole Zenizeni sizinangopangidwira anthu omwe akufuna kufufuza za kugonana kwawo. Eni ake ena amati amathanso kukhala njira yomverera chikondi pamene maubwenzi akusowa kapena kulibe m'moyo weniweni. Mwiniwake wina amene tinalankhula naye ananena kuti kugonana ndi chidole chake "kumakhala ngati ubale." Mwiniwake wina adati amagwiritsa ntchito chidole chake ngati bwenzi lothandizira popeza alibe m'moyo weniweni:
"Nthawi zonse ndakhala wosakwatiwa ndipo sindinapezepo mwayi uliwonse," akutero. “Koma tsopano sindikufuna aliyense chifukwa ndili ndi [chidole changa] pano.
N'zosavuta kuganiza kuti kukhala ndi chidole chonga ichi kuyenera kukhala kosangalatsa kwambiri kapena kokhumudwitsa, koma kwenikweni nthawi zambiri kumakhala pakati.
N'zosavuta kuganiza kuti kukhala ndi chidole chonga ichi kuyenera kukhala kosangalatsa kwambiri kapena kokhumudwitsa, koma kwenikweni nthawi zambiri kumakhala pakati.
Sichidzalowa m'malo mwa ubale weniweni, sichingalowe m'malo mwa inu ndi mnzanu (s), ndipo alibe maganizo kapena maganizo. Komabe, ngati wokondedwa wanu sangathe (kapena sangakwaniritse) zosowa zanu, mungafune kuganizira zopeza bwenzi.
Ngati muli osungulumwa ndipo mukufuna kampani ndi chikondi, izi zitha kukhala zothandiza kwa inu!
Zidole zachikondi zimatha kupatsa anthu maubwenzi ozama komanso zokumana nazo.
Zomwe zatengedwa m'nkhaniyi ndikuti zidole zachikondi zimatha kupatsa anthu kulumikizana mozama komanso zokumana nazo. Osati kokha chifukwa cha kugonana, angapangitse munthu amene sali pa banja kapena amene ali paubwenzi wosasangalala kumva kuti amakondedwa ndi kulemekezedwa ndi munthu wina.
Komanso, angathandize anthu omwe akuvutika kuti agwirizane ndi msinkhu wamaganizo chifukwa cha matenda a maganizo monga Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD) kuti apeze chimwemwe mwa kuyanjana ndi munthu wina.
Mukawerenga nkhanizi mwina mungakhale mukudabwa: zimakhala bwanji kukhala ndi chidole chachikondi? Yankho lake ndi lovuta, koma zomwe tinganene motsimikiza ndikuti zidolezi zimatha kuwonetsa kulumikizana kwakuya komanso zokumana nazo. Ngati mukufuna kudziwa zambiri za zidole zachikondi kapena kudzigulira nokha, onani kalozera wathu posankha chimodzi Chidole chotchipa chogonana on!
